Category Archives: Moving Out … Settling In

When We Aren’t Who We Want to Be

By Kimberly Schluterman My brother is five and a half years older than me. He was a happy, even-tempered baby and a well-behaved child. My parents believed themselves to be really wonderful parents because the fruit of their labor was

When We Aren’t Who We Want to Be

By Kimberly Schluterman My brother is five and a half years older than me. He was a happy, even-tempered baby and a well-behaved child. My parents believed themselves to be really wonderful parents because the fruit of their labor was

Too Afraid for a Spirit of Fear

By Kimberly Schluterman In the fall of 2009, I wrote a column called “As the Seasons Change,” detailing how I lost my lifelong convictions about biblical truth and spiritual certainty in only a matter of months. (More on this, including

Too Afraid for a Spirit of Fear

By Kimberly Schluterman In the fall of 2009, I wrote a column called “As the Seasons Change,” detailing how I lost my lifelong convictions about biblical truth and spiritual certainty in only a matter of months. (More on this, including

To Know Me is to Understand Me

By Kimberly Schluterman In The Experience Economy, B. Joseph Pine said, “The experience of being understood, versus interpreted, is so compelling, you can charge admission.” I was intrigued by the statement at first, but it wasn’t until my husband and

To Know Me is to Understand Me

By Kimberly Schluterman In The Experience Economy, B. Joseph Pine said, “The experience of being understood, versus interpreted, is so compelling, you can charge admission.” I was intrigued by the statement at first, but it wasn’t until my husband and

Learning the Hard Way

By Kimberly Schluterman When I was in Jr. High, Jesse, a kid a few grades ahead of me, was killed tragically in a car accident as he drove home, drunk, from a party on the mountain. At the time, we

Learning the Hard Way

By Kimberly Schluterman When I was in Jr. High, Jesse, a kid a few grades ahead of me, was killed tragically in a car accident as he drove home, drunk, from a party on the mountain. At the time, we

Eventually Spring

By Kimberly Schluterman Well, it’s that time of year again. After a record-bustingly cold winter, during which my town was colder than the South Pole for at least one night (and Single! editor Donna was happily in sub-tropical Brazil for

Eventually Spring

By Kimberly Schluterman Well, it’s that time of year again. After a record-bustingly cold winter, during which my town was colder than the South Pole for at least one night (and Single! editor Donna was happily in sub-tropical Brazil for

When Right Looks Wrong

By Kimberly Schluterman Once when I was in Jr. High, our youth group minister had an open-question night, where instead of having a set lesson, he let us ask Bible questions and he did his best to answer them. He

When Right Looks Wrong

By Kimberly Schluterman Once when I was in Jr. High, our youth group minister had an open-question night, where instead of having a set lesson, he let us ask Bible questions and he did his best to answer them. He

Confidently Humble

By Kimberly Schluterman This column was inspired by some teenage friends on Facebook whose conversations back and forth reminded me of what was perhaps the hardest, most difficult part of being a teenager: learning self-confidence. I had honestly forgotten how

Confidently Humble

By Kimberly Schluterman This column was inspired by some teenage friends on Facebook whose conversations back and forth reminded me of what was perhaps the hardest, most difficult part of being a teenager: learning self-confidence. I had honestly forgotten how

A Mid-20s Crisis

By Kimberly Schluterman I’m about a third of the way through the 25th year of my life. It doesn’t get much more “mid-twenties” than that. My Facebook status today says, “We enjoyed a perfect fire all day, then went out

A Mid-20s Crisis

By Kimberly Schluterman I’m about a third of the way through the 25th year of my life. It doesn’t get much more “mid-twenties” than that. My Facebook status today says, “We enjoyed a perfect fire all day, then went out